It was first published in 1992. How did it evaded me for nearly 20 years? My life could have been a lot better if I read 'Boundries' by Dr. H. Cloud & Dr. J Townsend that many years ago. Even yet, I still didn't read it until two years after I was being introduced to. I spent all my life fighting a lonely battle of setting boundaries. May be using the wrong methods that no one else would understand or appreciate. Now I finally found someone to agree and support me with the right tools. It gives me tremendous hope and relief.